you get what you give

to reiterate katie's point, we get at least 10 messages a day on okc (that's what the cool kids call ok cupid.  now you know.).  in this brutal world of snap-judgement first impressions that online dating fosters, just sending me a message isn't going to get my attention.  you've got to be witty, or handsome, or complimentary, or...something other than what this guy sent:

Liked your profile! You seem way fun. Check mine out Msg back.

err...  maybe try actually spelling out "message" and we'll see.